From Desperate to Prepared: Becoming the Woman God Called You to Be

I was in a hurry to find a spouse and get married. Most ladies I'm older than are already in a relationship and I am not in any relationship. The men that comes my way are not my type and the ones I'm interested in are either married or in a relationship already. I'm very desperate to be in love and get married, the voices of my friends, family,the church and society keeps ringing in my ear, "get yourself a Man", so yes I'm desperate to find one. Probably I have a problem I told myself, maybe I'm not really attractive to Good Men, I look at the wives of these Godly men and they are very beautiful,their dressing so top notch,the way they carry themselves gracefully,the way they speak, the wisdom they are filled with and many more. Then I looked inside myself and became sad this is because I don't see any of these good thing in myself, definitely I am not cut out for a good Man. I should just settle for any Man that comes my way as long he is a Christian, no more standard given since I am not up to standard too. Then I encountered the book The Woman Of Wonder by Dr(Mrs) Shade Olukoya, and transformation began and it taught me a lot I'll like to share a little 1. Building values:- my character,my inner values, developing godly virtues and maintaining quality character 2. Building trust :- building trust, avoiding shady character, contributing positively wherever I find my self, working on my God confidence 3. Building skills :- learning a new skill, enrolling into a fashion and design school, catering, using free time to practice skills 4. Building an international business:- be ready to read books on profitable businesses, if possible consider international business There are many more I learnt but this was the beginning of change in my life and trust me finding a Man was the last thing in mind. Never knew God was preparing for a Man of his. I bless God I didn't just settle for less now I know who I am, a daughter of the most high, a Queen, so don't ever settle for less, for certain out father in heaven is preparing that very man you don't expect. When my husband came I was like God how do I deserve this. He's a very big blessing to me and I'm also a blessing to him too. Ladies do not forget the place of preparation all in the name that you're pressured, follow the process,.learn and grow before going into marriage. God bless you🙏